In Male-Female Relationships: Communication "Will it get better when you get married?"
- Şeymanur ERTÜRK
- Feb 11
- 2 min read

In relationships between men and women, communication is one of the basic elements of establishing a healthy and strong bond. Communication is not limited to just talking; it also includes more than one element such as emotional understanding, empathy and body language. Healthy communication is the fruit of personal development. The most important issue to be addressed before a man-woman relationship is our personal development. Since we cannot develop personally, this starts to cause more serious problems with marriage. Those who dream of getting better when they get married cannot find what they were hoping for. There are also those who are completely unaware.
First of all, we should know that there are deep meanings in the attraction of marriage. Some are healthy attractions, while others are like hail while running away from the rain. Judgmentalism and always being right in communication are quite triggering. While the lack of communication continues to grow as a problem of this age, institutions that include extensive communication such as marriage continue to be under threat. In addition, one of the things we cannot hold in such a fast age is morality.
Everyone needs to live a life of diligence, aware of their own values. However, this
In order not to be one of those who have lost their way, your marriage cannot be your savior; or your child.
We must work on our self-awareness with individual effort. If this is pursued, there must be action.
Those who postpone it change after marriage, and those who make plans have experienced that it does not.
Marriage does not change you.
On the contrary, it continues to give rise to different problems with the burden of responsibility.
Healthy relationships can or cannot be built depending on your level of emotional maturity and the constructiveness of your communication style.
Finally, we must realize that,
Continuing our personal development, especially taking care of some things before making serious decisions such as marriage, is essential in terms of making a positive contribution to the concept of family, the perspective towards family, and being a home.
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